I spent last weekend with my girlfriend Carol, whom I met in the 8th grade. I had no recollection that we had met at a roller rink the year before we actually went to school together, but my 9th grader self wrote it in her freshman yearbook to enlighten me.
The thing about spending time with someone you've known all your life (or most of it) is that it doesn't matter what kind of life philosophy, political opinion, or religious views you have, you can still giggle and confide and find solace in knowing someone and being known. I spent time with her family and got to witness first-hand what a great mom she is and how amazing her kids are (and hubby too).
For whatever reason, I haven't kept many friends from my childhood so I always give her credit for keeping us connected. I've gotten better about it over the years, but in the early days I was not easy to contact.
Honestly, I have not had a good record of spending time with my girlfriends. I've always got some project, degree or dog event going and my down time is spent with Tim. I have one of those rare husbands who likes to do things I like to do. Hiking, yoga, museums, plays. I'm not bragging, I'm just saying it doesn't leave much time for the girls. My last conversation with Cindy was about this exactly. I was frustrated that every time she tried to plan something with me, I had something else going on. I REALLY wanted to do all these things she was suggesting, Japanese spa, movie, marathon. I just had something else on the calendar.
I really am blessed to have this life. I want to do so many things, go so many places, hang out with so many people, there's just not enough hours in the day.
Okay...I'm done crying now. :-)
ReplyDeleteLong Time Friends - Part II
I often wonder why I didn't keep in touch with my friends from college more since most professionals I know do. But, I always come up with the same answer. My childhood and high school friends are my most cherished friends because they are the most genuine, sincere, and trustworthy people I know. We've withstood the test of not only time, but we have been through hard times, sad times, and fun times...we have disappointed and hurt each other, we have forgiven each other, we have laughed endlessly together, confided in each other, and cried together...always to come full circle and still be the best of friends.
Jenelle (aka: Jenny, still my preference), you are a dear, sweet, and treasured friend to me that I love very much. You have always been my most eccentric and intellectual friend who I can always rely on being there for me...whether to listen to me vent, offer a sound opinion or advice, a hug, or a GREAT laugh. Thank you for being you.
Okay, now it's my turn to cry! Thanks Cawo! Love you!!!
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